WHAT KILLS A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

long distance relationship

WHAT KILLS A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

Reasons for the fall:

Communication bridge: Communication is the key to any relationship and as in the case of distance relationships it plays the most prominent role. Communication arts as the only method to make or break a relationship. The Couple in a long-distance relationship should be able to spare time for their relationship to work out so that they can strengthen the bond. Conversing often about their daily lives makes the distance barrier blur a bit.  

Physical intimacy: physical intimacy is important for a couple but it is used as the biggest excuse to break a relationship. In common physical intimacy will grow a stronger bond but in its absence, it’s not necessary to break a relationship apart. We Can still maintain a beautiful relationship without physical intimacy. 

Overthinking: many of us have this habit of overthinking prone to chances of a disaster but focusing on the present and maintaining healthy Communication with your partner by trusting them can overcome this barrier.  Imagine the unnecessary and getting jealous and suspicious of small things over your partner. 

Infatuation: many people mostly get confused with an infatuation for love and such relations break easily and quickly. The attraction between them comes to an end when the distance between them starts to grow. Though for so many pains infatuation is the foundation for the start of their journey, the physical distance during the start of such relations can make the couple part ways in no time.  

Tips to grow a long-distance relationship: 

 1. Stay virtually connected: Make up your free time to spare for each other and try to be as connected as possible. Try to answer the calls without any excuses. Video calls can make you feel more connected.  

 2. Set up dates online: Make a schedule for dates like having dinner or watching movies together online. Through This, you’ll make your partner feel loved and valued.  

 3. Travel virtually together: you know it’s not impossible to travel together in this growing world? Your Partner is always one step away from chats and calls, so share your memories, experiences, and all the fun and tough parts you’ve faced with them. 

4. Play games online: if your partner is into online games, spare a little time on your weekend to play games, so this still elevates your bond and keeps you homents to cherish and pass on time. Goofiness is always important  

 5. Read books together: if you are a book worm then suggest some books and read them together. Later on, discuss the books you’ve read with each other, this helps you understand your partner’s thought process well. 

6. Share your thoughts frequently: in a relationship, it’s always good to share your thoughts and opinions with your partner even though for the silly things, this enhances to the foundation for a healthy relationship. Sharing each other daily lives details and discussing on things can make your bond to strengthen much and feel emotionally connected. 

 7. Plan for your future:  discuss your thoughts on both your future together. Ask them their opinions on how they feel about living together for a lifetime. Know your partner’s views of living together. Planning a future should never be one-sided, so seek each other’s advice on this matter. 

 8. Cooking together via video call: video chat while cooking. Make it a fun time to communicate and make it a domestic thing while feeling both are on the same platform. 

 9. Sharing the smallest details is the most precious way to spend time: even if it’s the smallest and necessary things also can be shared among couples. When you can share your embarrassed stories with your friends then you can share your low-key shamefully and embarrassed things with your other half. It doesn’t make you any less if you show your low profile to your partner because we all are humans and we tend to be different in different situations and react differently to different situations and with different persons. 

 10. Show your eagerness to spend time together: your partner must be able to feel your eagerness and happiness while spending time together. You must receive the same from your partner, only then can your relationship last long and healthy.